Comments on: Picking Up the Pieces: Moving Forward After Surviving Cancer

By: Breast Cancer Now What » Making Peace With Your Body After Cancer

Breast Cancer Now What » Making Peace With Your Body After Cancer — Wed, 12 Jan 2011 00:29:43 +0000

[...] In Sherri Magee and Kathy Scalzo’s book, “Picking up the Pieces, Moving Forward after Surviving Cancer“, they talk about how the side effects of cancer are not only physical, but emotional and and spiritual as well. “Cancer shatters a lot of illusions,” Kathy says. “The illusion of health, the illusion of having control over their lives. Survivors live on a roller coaster of emotions because right next to the intense gratitude for life sits fear and anxiety, even depression because you are not who you were.“1 [...]

By: Britta

Britta — Thu, 07 Oct 2010 11:46:01 +0000

Marie, Yes, indeed, the healing begins after the shock of completing treatments and we must continue to have our team of support around us to help us cope with the side effects on our bodies, minds and emotions. I appreciate you sharing with us and your blog has been so very helpful to myself and so many! Thank you for all that you do – Britta

By: Marie Ennis-O'Connor

Marie Ennis-O'Connor — Sun, 03 Oct 2010 11:39:15 +0000

Thank you for higlighing this Britta. I passionately believe that more follow-up care is needed to give recognition to the post-treatment phase of cancer survivorship. Sometimes there can be a code of silence surrounding the aftermath of cancer treatment. We can experience feelings of fatigue, guilt, loneliness or depression, alongside feelings of gratitude and a renewed sense of purpose. As we transition from the treatment phase of survivorship, we are not always prepared for the maelstrom of mixed emotions which can hit us. On my Journeying Beyond Breast Cancer blog, I provide a space for survivors to share their experiences. Following my own diagnosis, I underwent nine months of treatment – surgery, chemotherapy, radiotherapy and brachytherapy. I felt as if I had a new full-time job on my hands, a project which took up all my time. It was structured around appointments and moved through defined stages to a clear end goal. While I found the treatment grueling at times, I had my family and medical team behind me. It was only when treatment ended and that structure fell apart, that the full impact of what had happened hit me. I felt cut adrift. There is an expectation that when you walk out of hospital on that final day of treatment, your cancer story has ended, but the reality is that in many ways you story is only just beginning. Now the real work of healing begins.

By: Britta

Britta — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 22:02:14 +0000

Vel, I totally feel for you. I know that it must be difficult to be a single mom, taking care of a child and getting the care you need for yourself as well. Congratulations on your survivorship. You are such a fighter and an inspiration. While I’m not sure how to help you relieve all of your stresses, there are a few things that you may be able to do to cut down on time and responsibilities. Instead of heading to the grocery store check out http://www.FreshDirect.com to do all of your shopping online (they also offer organic produce) and will deliver it directly to your door without you having to spend time in the store. You can also get support from the http://www.singlemothers.org/ network which offers lots of information and support groups. What has always helped me is prayer, the power of it has brought a lot of relief and much comfort. I hope that this helps. Love and light – Britta

By: Vel

Vel — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 15:16:30 +0000

I am a single mom and have finished all my treatments but now have to resume a “normal” life. Being a single mom is tough as is but going through cancer, chemo and the worries bout if it returns or not – little own worrying about your child. I don’t get to concentrate on myself as I have a child to raise and now must find a daycare before I return back to work and just get back to my regular routine before I got sick. I am tired and somedays I find it difficult to be a single mom – to play, or go outside or even buy groceries but gotta pull through. I must go to work to provide for my daughter but if it is my choice I would not go back to work cause I don’t have enough energy now to be mom little own a working mom. I have finished my treatments July of 2009 and been in remission for 6 months and I am 41.